You know the #autism / #trans / #trauma (?) thing where someone confronts you about how you've caused harm and you just instantly believe them and apologise and apologise and apologise.

Then afterwards when you regain rationality you realise that it wasn't your fault, or it wasn't a big deal. But you've already Pled Guilty and you can't take that back. You've already permanently lost social status. You can't relitigate closed matters.

Is there a word for that?